Sometimes....

Sometimes you just gotta call a spade a spade. When someone is being a jerk for no apparrant reason, filled with unwarranted venom, hating on innocent people, you just gotta call them on it! You can still love them, but you have to put them in their place. Someone has to stop them, and it might as well be the one who loves them most. Jealousy is a green eyed monster, has no place in my life, and I won't tollerate it, especially when it involves one of my children. I love each one of my children equally and differently, I love my husband with all my heart, and my grandchildren uniquely, but I won't ever be able to pour up my love in a measuring cup or put it on a scale to make sure it is exactly the same for everyone. I treat each one with a special unique love and that's how it will be. I don't want to be under a magnifying glass about who I did this for and who I did that for. I do for each as what their need is and how I can help them. And while I am quick to tell one that they are being a jerk, I still love them! I believe God might just do this to us. There are times when he quickens us to look at ourselves and see how we acted out or spoke out of place, only to have us see where we were wrong, and if we are sensitive to His correction, we will ask forgiveness. Even though we behave badly, God still loves us! He wants us to take correction.